far from the usual...

so there are people out there. they live. walk, breath and eat. sometimes they work, hustle, or collect. they could be smart they could be dumb. but all in the same they are who they are and they do what they do. sometimes you can be left in a corner wondering why you are the way you are and why they are the way they are.



things motivate people, and everyone wants different things. and sometimes your left with nothing. sometimes it is difficult to make sense of things.





1. try to define who you are. make a list of how you see yourself. then be bold and write "proof" of those characteristics through actions. Do you really have any weaknesses? what are your best qualities?



2. write down the important people in your life, from your perspective. why are they important to you? write down the people who have let you down. how have they let you down?



3. define your current status. be honest. are you single? are you un-employed? what are your daily work tasks? are you proud of anything recently? where do you live? how are your living conditions? pretend you are someone else describing you to a potential mate, how do people see you?



4. reflect on childhood aspirations. are they similar to the ones you have now?



who knows really anything in life? sometimes when you are left alone to reflect you are left with only a bit more armor. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. learn from past mistakes. don't make excuses for yourself. be bold. hope.